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This blog celebrates the beauty of Asian men by illustrating the depth and variety that is so often missed by those who make foolish statements like "All Asians look the same." It is primarily a photo blog, but I will also occasionally write comments related to Asian men and gay life as it relates to them.

Friday, December 08, 2006

Bedroom (Holiday Mode*)



Please note: As I mentioned previously, Once You Go Asian is in holiday mode until the end of the year. This simply means that, in order to cut back significantly on my blogging time so that I may accomplish many things that need to be completed by year's end, but still wishing to put forth regular offerings of hot guys, the majority of posts from now to January will not include my normal witty banter. Instead, I will simply post pictures centered around a general (most likely boring) theme. Today's theme, of course, is "Bedroom."






























1 comments:

Michael said...

Tim,
Well, as you know, I often agree with you, but I think maybe I would stop a bit short of where you have landed on this. I certainly understand (and share) your concern that there are some who promote an incorrect view of Asian men in photography. However, I think that there can be different purposes for erotic photography. Just because a photo is not explicitly sexual does not mean it is worthy of criticism. Personally, I have a huge collection of naked Asian XXX porn pictures, but I have steered clear of those pictures more and more on this blog. That is in no way an attempt to "neuter" the pictures by hiding the cocks (and I completely understand that you are not accusing me of that...don't worry!); rather, I have tried to make this blog a site that promotes the beauty of Asian men and have found that the explicitly sexual pictures, at least to some extent, can distract from the larger goal. I'm still trying to find a balance here, and I'm not certain exactly what will be the best route to take, but hopefully I am finding a decent balance.

One other item to consider, and that is each of us defines attraction in different ways. This may sound odd coming from a gay man, but a cock really is quite a ways down the list for me of what gets me aroused. In my case (and you will probably see this reflected in my picture selection), probably 75% of my attraction to a guy is in his eyes and lips/smile. Basically, the only thing that is important for me in a cock is that it's big enough for me to feel it when he's on top of me ;-). Other than that, I'm anything but a size queen. So, just because pictures don't throw the cock in our faces does not necessarily mean they are inappropriate I think.

That's my three cents worth :-)